Baby Daddy v Fathers

So there is a real misconception on what it means to be a father. Father's day just passed and many men who have children were very proud. However, many men who have children and who were proud should not have been as proud. This is because the number of children who are growing up with out a father is at a ridiculous number. There are so many women who are raising their children by themselves because men decide that they don't want to grow up or are not ready for the responsibility that comes with having children. Those men who do not stay around to take care of their children are usually referred to as baby daddies. They have a relationship with a woman and get her pregnant and then decide to just walk away. African American women are the main women effected by the decision of this men. Baby Daddies are known to not care about the feelings of African American women. They expect them to just take care of the children and not complain. They want these women to also take care of them as well as the children. However, on the hand a father is the man who take care of his responsibilities. He is the one who does everything in his power to make sure his children never want or need for a damn thing. This is the man who could care less what another person says about him or his decisions. This man is the man that African American women dream about and want. This is the man that little blacks look up to and want to one day become. This the man that little black girls look up to and say to themselves "this is the type of man I want to marry". This is the man that African American women should find and treat right so that they can eventually become is WIFE!!! Too many women fall for the okie doke and fall for men who are not this type of man and they need to stop falling for these men. They will forever try to hold African American women down.
~~~A Phenomenal Woman~~~